Absence makes the heart grow fonder..True or False!!

I'v been separated from a loved one due to work reasons......And as sickening as having people quote proverbs to u can be..Its at its worst when people tell me about familiarity and fondness and all the rest....

Seriously??

We miss the people we love..And we only realize we love them and miss then so much when a little distance falls b/w us.....

But trust me.....Love grows with togetherness not distance..And separation is not my cup of tea.....

Which makes me wonder how the families with one family member abroad or in the armed forces survive.....I people walk into relationships with people in these professions with eyes wide open right??
So how do they make it work???

Is the distance just a part of the deal?? and they learn to work with it??
Or is it a sacrifice they make for the love they want??

Or does it just not matter??

I know people in long distance relationships who seem to be doin fine too...How does that work??

Is it that with so much distance you don't really have time to realize the Negative side of ur love?? that life just seems one perpetual dream??

Well i may not have all the answers..But i sure have a lot of questions!!!

Faith to Move Mountains

Been Planning to Post for a long time...Had a gazillion ideas....But just somehow never got around to doing it.

So I'll start off with one story that is close to my heart......

A close Friend of mine lost a dear one On Holy Saturday. Now that was tragic enough. But the fact was she is getting married next week and the funeral took Place in the same church which is going to host her wedding which made it worse....

Now A scenario like this would have probably sent Me Off the deep end ......I can just imagine what kind of hysteria and drama I would have subjected the world to.....So I was prepared for that kind of situation when I went to see her.
What Surprised/Shocked me was, not only did she receive me with a smile. It ended up with her comforting me.

Her faith in the plans of a God who is always faithful...And her trust that No matter what God will be there made me hang my head in shame. Quite honestly that kind of faith is what a Christian should have, No matter what Trust him entirely.

And I actually saw someone living the kind of faith that I always thought was easy to preach but impossible to practice..... She is an inspiration...On Courage...On Faith...And on facing all odds and still coming out a victor….All because her faith is not on man but an Almighty God!!

Wishing her a Blessed Married Life….And all Gods Choicest Blessings in her future….

Misfortune never comes single....

Been having a lot of Problems lately... Its like one tidal wave barely subsides before the others hit.... Thats pretty worrying... With every Hit i begin to realize how you can never plan for life...It will hit in the most unexpected spots and at the most unexpected times..Its like God decided to let me know "Think you have your life all figured out?? Think Again!!"

And the funny thing is None of these problems can be solved By me or any of my family members.Its totally out of our control ..Makes one realize exactly how fickle man and life really are...With no control over our lives or the lives of our loved ones we can only be spectators of what ever is happening...

And while the very thought of losing control is really scary...As the old adage goes...Lfe will go on!!