Reality Check.....

I"m a dreamer......And i'v been on this roller coaster ride called a courtship for over 3 months now.Its supposed to be a lot of fun...even the arguments.....I sincerely hope my mom does not read this...or if she does that she wont pitch a fit about it.....U see my mother does not realize that arguments and getting inside another persons head are all part of the fun...Anyway our arguments range from silly things like crying after watching 3 Idiots....to serious stuff like where to buy property....to Who should learn cooking- Me or Him(Right now he is winning that particular argument)....Mom does not belong to the "Pathi is Parameshwar" group....but she still comes from the school of thought which says Girls always always have to give in.....Well i say lets bring in a whole new system.... Compromise is a great thing.... That is what makes relationships work..But if a girl is always going to be the one giving in it will not make for a happy marriage...She will be frustrated and angry at being the doormat...and carrying such grievance in her heart will not make her a saint but an idiot..... Let both partners compromise...and u will have a true marriage.....One that will last...w/o the wife being the martyr or the husband the villain....